I will admit – I’m WAY too nice.
I really need to gain an edge and be tougher at times… but I just don’t have it in me. I tend to keep it all in and not outwardly show my tough side, thus my nice side is always shinning.
But at times I wish people would see me being a tough gal – maybe they’d have more respect for me. And since I’m a nice person, people walk all over me, take advantage of me, hurt me… because they know I won’t get mad at them.
I’ve always been one to try and impress people, make them like me, and very much a people pleaser… but I’m sick of it. I know so many people that are nice and tough so why can’t I be that way too? I know for a fact – people respect them way more and they definitely don’t take advantage of them.
As they say, nice guys/gals finish last… and all my life – I’ve finished last only because I’m too nice – to giving – to understanding.
It’s about time I stand up and and be tough.
Now… who’s with me?